Remember Your A-B-C’s
(Look for information on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)
Activating event à Which triggers…
Beliefs à Which leads to…
Retrace what has happened and sort through the beliefs that have lead you to the actions you’ve taken so far. Often our erroneous beliefs take us down a path of behaviors and actions that have contributed to the problem(s) we find ourselves facing.
Now, substitute more effective beliefs about what’s going on
and take one step toward changing your actions in this situation, based on these new beliefs.
Here's a terrific worksheet to help you with this process:
And another website with awesome resources: